A cikin watanni huɗu da suka gabata a Tokyo, kusan kowace rana na je wannan otal, ina kwana daga safiya zuwa dare, amma ba na kwana.Yanzu da nake yin wani Documentary game da otal ɗin, mai shi ya ba ni ɗaki mai zaman kansa don in sami damar samun ainihin yanayin otal ɗin soyayya a cikin 'yan watanni masu zuwa. da kiran gado, wani lokacin kuma ba abin mamaki ba ne ka ga mace tana yawo da wani mutum akan ledar kare.
Shin kun taɓa tunanin za a ɗaure ku ko ɗaure abokin tarayya a cikin ɗakin kwana?BDSM-wanda ya ƙunshi bauta, horo, mulki da biyayya, da sadomasochism-ya girma cikin shahara a tsawon shekaru.Shahararren nau'i na bautar shibari, wanda kuma aka sani da bautar igiya ta Japan.
Shibari aiki ne na ruhi.
Duk da sanannen imani, zari ba aikin ruhaniya bane a Japan.Wannan lamari ne ga waɗanda ke jin daɗin wasu nau'ikan kink, kamar bautar fata, bulala, wasannin azabtarwa, mallakewa da biyayya, da ƙari.Igiyar Jafananci na iya zama wasannin jima'i mara kyau, nutsuwar kai a cikin duniyar rudani, ko duk abin da ke tsakanin.”
Shibari ya zama mai sarkakiya da wahala.
Duk da yake yana iya zama mai rikitarwa, hakika ba lallai bane ya kasance.Ba dole ba ne ka koyi kuma ka mallaki hadaddun sifofi waɗanda watakila ma ba su da lafiya a gare ka ko jikin abokin tarayya.Wasu alaƙa na asali, ko corset mai sauƙi, suna da daɗi.A ƙarshen rana, game da nishaɗantarwa ne da son rai, ba tsoratarwa ko burgewa ba.
Shibari duk cikin farin ciki ne.
A zahiri, shibari yana iya zama kamar yana mai da hankali kan jin daɗin jima'i kawai, amma ba koyaushe haka lamarin yake ba.A cewar ƙwararren malami mai koyar da jima'i Denis Graveris, mutane daban-daban suna da dalilai daban-daban na shiga wannan ɗaurin.Ya lura cewa sau da yawa mutane kan fuskanci sanin jiki a lokacin shibari da bayansa, amma ba kowace gogewa ba ce ke buƙatar haɗawa da motsa jiki.Duk da haka, saboda amincewa da gwaninta, har yanzu za ku fuskanci wani abu mai mahimmanci kuma ku ji kusa da ɗayan.
Shibari masu tashin hankali ne.
Jin zafi na iya zama wani sinadari na shibari, amma bai kamata ya zama kamar azabtarwa ba, kuma bai kamata ya zama mara dadi ba, in ji Graveris.Wannan don jin daɗinku ne, ba don wahalarku ba.Amintacciya wani muhimmin al'amari ne na wasa "shibari" tsakanin ku da abokin tarayya.
Amfanin chai bari
1. Yana inganta kusanci.
Sirrin bauta da nishaɗin ɗaurin da yawancin mutane ba sa magana a kai shi ne yana buƙatar kusanci da musanyar azanci akai akai.
2. Sauƙi don daidaitawa, daidaitawa mara iyaka.
Kamar yadda yake da mafi yawan al’amura a rayuwa, babu wata hanyar da ta dace da shibari.Yana da sauƙin daidaitawa mara iyaka, kuma zaku iya daidaitawa da canza shi don dacewa da kowane nau'in jiki, matakan dacewa, da matakan gogewa.Ba ka bukatar ka kasance mai sassauci don jin dadin shibari, kawai kana bukatar ka bayyana abin da ke aiki da abin da baya.
3. Yana iya ba ku lafiyayyen kashi na endorphins.
A cewar Grevelis, lokacin da kuka yanke shawarar rungumar ƙwarewar, jikin ku yana ba ku lada da abubuwan jin daɗi kamar endorphins, serotonin, da dopamine.Da zarar kun kware waɗannan fasahohin, zaku iya tura jikin ku zuwa iyaka har sai ya ba ku waɗannan fa'idodin.
Binciken shibari hanya ce mai kyau don kusantar ku da abokin tarayya.Hakanan hanya ce mai kyau don sanin jikin ku da kyau, wanda a ƙarshe zai bar ku ku sami ƙarfin gwiwa.Koyaya, yana da mahimmanci ku yi bincikenku kafin yin hakan.
Hakanan, kar a yi ƙoƙarin yin koyi da matakan da masu amfani suka harba ba tare da ɗaukar matakan tsaro da suka dace ba.Tabbas: koyaushe kiyaye wasanku lafiya kuma gaba ɗaya na son rai.
Lokacin aikawa: Agusta-04-2023
